Thursday, August 30, 2012

Whose Side Are YOU On?

An insightful look at how and what we are teaching our children, as seen through the eyes of a very wise young student.  

What a mess humanity's immorality has created; what a world our children are set to inherit from us. 

A sneak peek inside the pro-life book God Moments III:  True Love Leads To Life, available November 2012 (Joseph Karl Publishing).
 
Whose Side Are You On?
By Nick Bottesi


     One day this past spring, a guest speaker came into my 9th grade gym class to talk to us about the facts of life.  Basically, she said you can have sex whenever you want as long as you have protection and know about sexually transmitted diseases, and how to “be safe.”  I found it strange how she just came in to the classroom, did not say “Hi” or “Hello” or “My name is…”  She just started talking about sex. 
     She told us all about the different methods of artificial birth control, and encouraged their use.  Her talk made me feel awkward and from the comments I heard during and after her presentation, many others felt awkward, too. 

     In my opinion, nobody wanted to hear this talk and nobody liked this talk, but we had to listen. I only listened to so much because she was annoying and had weird demonstrations.   

For instance, she made a sperm sock by rolling up a sock, and then she gave it a tail. I wanted to tell her what I thought, but I didn’t want to get suspended.  


On day two we learned more about STDs.  She needed some volunteers for a skit, and for no apparent reason she chose me. I played Batman and had to explain to the audience how I had sex with Catwoman, then she left me, and I never trusted  another girl again. After the skit she showed us some messed up pictures of what STDs look like.

  
   Everybody was kind of grossed out by her entire talk.  Nobody agreed with her, either; after she was finished speaking, I heard students say things contrary to what she taught, like “You probably shouldn’t have sex until you’re older.”  After a horrible talk and those gruesome pictures, I felt like I needed to throw up. I wish I hadn’t signed the papers to hear the talk.   
 

     However, there is hope! One year before, I had gone to listen to a talk about sex, but this one was different. The speaker was Pam Stenzel, and she was way different. She is pro-life, advocated abstinence until marriage, valued purity, and handed out pamphlets that had dignified, useful information that helps young people.  She talked about how sex is holy and it should be kept holy, within marriage. I agree with her and her message. She told the truth about how sex outside of marriage, artificial contraception, and abortion harm people.  Not only that, she came across much happier than the other speaker and seemed more enthusiastic, like she wanted to be there.


     I have been to two different talks about sex.  One I hated, and one I enjoyed. The comparison is that one lady seemed sad, was rude, her message lacked morality, and it seemed like she wished she didn’t have to be there. On the other hand, the pro-life abstinence speaker was nice, had manners, was interesting, told the truth, and seemed like she wanted to be there. Whose message do you think is pleasing to God?  Whose side are you on? Because I know which side I’m on. 

Andre, Alyssa, and Nick Bottesi with Pam Stenzel.

To learn more about Pam's phenomenal work defending youth, please visit:  http://www.pamstenzel.com/